Uke Versus Seme – Who's Really on Top?

Okay, so we all know in the world of gay men there are the tops and the bottoms, the pitchers and the catchers, the hot dogs and the buns (?)…You get it, I'll stop there:) In Yaoi or Boys Love anime and manga, it's referred to as the uke (botton) and the seme(top). Let's have a little discussion about this, shall we?

The seme is typically what you'd find in your standard romance novel, the confident alpha male who may be famous, runs a business empire, is some type of royalty or otherwise has ...