How to Fix a Broken Relationship After Cheating and Lying
Relationships are very fragile and can break with a small waft of cruel air. They need to be
maintained with great care and are based on the two main underlying assumptions of trusts and
faith in the each other. If you do not trust your partner your existence with them is as good as null
and void. There is no real beginning and end to this relationship. In case, today, you are in a position
of a freshly broken cord and desire to rebuild it with good faith, then there is some hope for you,
however, minuscule the hope maybe , a hope is a hope. Here are some tried and tested measures
that you can try to string in the correct place to play the harmonious sounds of love music again. Try
it; there is no guarantee of success as we still don’t know the intensity of your lies, dishonesty and
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First Tale, True Tale
First and foremost, stop doing the things that caused your relationship to break. Stop lying and
stop cheating. Stop doing what took you down this guilt trip as only that will get you the confidence
to move ahead to woo your mate again. Start facing reality and start practicing your real story in
your head. Be prepared to face the truths you were trying to cover up with your set of lies that you
repeatedly told your partner. If the gamut of lies still remains strong in your head, you will not be
able to take the point straight forward to your partner.
Accept Your Flaws
Before talking to your partner about the scope you see after the bad day in your relationship you
need to make a list of your lies and cheat scene and need to accept them before anything else.
It’s time to face the truth and know that tomorrow, when you go to your partner begging them to
forgive you, you cannot be in denial of the crimes committed. If you think you are innocent or just
fail to accept your part of the game that turned sour, then it’s time you stop thinking about your
partner ever being willing to forgive you for your atrocious crimes.
You Owe Your Partner All the Answers
After having said and done the deal, it’s now time you meet your partner. Prep up for this moment
and beware because your partner is going to be very angry at you. Assumption to be made, your
partner does not want to forgive you. Your task is to convince them to forgive you. Hence, with the
justifications and story you tell to pacify will be splashed with horrible and tough questions for you.
You should make sure you do not lose your control, because honestly, you really cannot afford to!
You owe ever single answer to the partner who is completely questioning your integrity.
Proving your worth again to a partner who lost it because of your own crimes is an uphill task.
However, trying your luck with a sincere heart and repentance for all done ills may surprise you with
forgiveness.
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The above post is written by freelance writer, Himanshu Sharma. To learn more about tips regarding relationships, family and love, you can visit his site.