Questions with Answers

Sex doesn't lend itself well to simplicity. There really isn't any aspect of sex or sexuality that isn't in some ways a shifting landscape, with fuzzy boundaries and plenty of territory that is not only unchartered but completely unobservable.

When I'm thinking of my own sexuality or sex life I tend to forget this. Like most of us my mind does tricks to make meaning and find patterns and consistency among the chaos.

But as soon as I sit down to answer a question about sex it all comes back. T...