Single Again For The First Time 8: Black Hole

Vincent Truman

In my 8th podcast, I describe how I found out that there was an impostor profile on OKCupid that lifted some of my images and purported, basically, to be me.  While dealing with that profile was pretty easy, the black hole that invited me to play with it did wreak a bit of havoc.  In this context, the ‘black hole’ refers to when, after a big relationship, one is drawn back into a labyrinth of ‘what if’ and ‘how did’ and ‘why did’ scenarios, which, if given enough latitude, prove to be paralyzing.  Having skirted the lip of this particular black hole, I delve into ways I – and others – can avoid such temptation.

I also touch briefly on a spontaneous date, which ended with one of the best texts ever, as well as the usual spate of silly voices and asides.

Language is a bit terse in this one.