Just Google It

I get weird questions sometimes. If you're an erotic romance author, you probably know how that works. People hear what you write and think you're an expert on all topics related to sex and relationships. Truthfully, I can often answer their questions because I've spent a lot of time doing research for my books.

Other times, I do what any normal person might do in these situations. I Google it. No, seriously. That's how I handle a lot of things. There are a lot of really great articles on the internet about just about any topic you can think of. Cleaning your house, writing a book, and getting in to role-playing. Does that mean everything has already been said? Probably. By someone, somewhere, at some time. That doesn't mean that new information doesn't appear or that it doesn't get refined.

I remember being in math class one day and having a teacher say something that made so much sense I couldn't believe no one had told me to do it that way before.

It wasn't a new topic though. It was a type of math I'd been supposedly doing for the last year. Someone just found a way to say it that made sense to me.

I encourage people to ask all sorts of questions. Why? Because maybe the way this person will phrase it will make sense when no one else has. But, for the love of God, please search first yourself. If you can't find it or can't find something that makes sense, then ask.