Mist and forgiveness

"Forgiveness. The ability to forgive oneself. Stop here for a few breaths
and think about this, because it is the key to making art and very
possibly the key to finding any semblance of happiness in life. Every
time I have set out to translate the book (or story, or hopelessly long
essay) that exists in such brilliant detail on the big screen of my
limbic system onto a piece of paper (which, let's face it, was once a
towering tree crowned with leaves and a home to birds), I grieve for my
own lack of intelligence. Every. Single. Time.

"Were I smarter, more gifted, I could pin down a closer facsimile of the wonders I see. I believe that, more than anything else, this grief of constantly having to face down our own inadequacies is what keeps people from being writers. Forgiveness, therefore, is the key. I can't write the book I want to write, but I can and will write the book I am capable of writing. Again and again throughout the course of my life I will forgive myself."

-  Ann Patchett (from The Getaway Car: A Practical Memoir About Writing and Life)

"I wondered if that was how forgiveness budded; not with the fanfare of
epiphany, but with pain gathering its things, packing up, and slipping
away unannounced in the middle of the night.”

-  Khaled Hosseini (from The Kite Runner)

"For a writer it's a big deal to bow -- or kneel or get knocked down
-- to the fact that you are going to write your own books and not
somebody else's. Not even those books of the somebody else you thought
it was your express business to spruce yourself up to be."

- Patricia Hampl  (from The Writer on Her Work, Vol. II)