This Post Is For People Like Me

You need to be emotionally engaged with your environment. We are physical creatures. We live in physical space. After you clean a room, go in there and take 5 minutes - a full 5 minutes, time it! - and enjoy it. Look at how the space appears now. IT IS YOUR WORK THAT DID THAT. Enjoy the change you created. See it. Smell it. Experience it. This is your home. You should be getting enjoyment from it.

If no one is helping with this, that's your de facto carte blanche to arrange things exactly how...