Just to be clear though, Ms Simone, I'm not trying to accuse you of presenting yourself as an expert on LGBT or other sexual and gender diversity issues. You seem like a lovely lady who's done her best to educate herself as much as possible about the sort

You are very kind, but again, you have nothing to clarify, what you said was 100% spot on.

When you are asking about issues regarding POC and lgbtq issues, and your first instinct is to ask a white, straight, cisgendered person, you are most definitely looking in the wrong direction.