Why we don’t get what we want.

Why don’t we get the things we are asking The Universe for?

We’ve read all about The Law of Attraction, we understand about  positive affirmations, and gratitude and so on, so why does the big break-through not happen?

Or more importantly why does something happen to take away what we get just as it is getting good? Isn’t that more often the case?

We get that job, that relationship, that unexpected cheque (check) for £1000 ($1500) but after a while it goes wrong. We’re still broke despite the income, the relationship goes off,  the car breaks down or something in the house goes wrong and we need £800 to fix it.

It seems like the Universe gives with one hand and takes away with the other. So what is going on?

Blocks, that’s what it is. We think you have worked out all those self-limiting beliefs, and we probably have, on a mental and even an emotional level. But there is more, deeper down.

Things that happen early in our childhood, that as a child we are unable to understand or rationalise, teach us things like ‘I’m not worthy of notice’ , ‘I need to take care of others before I look to my own needs’, or the trade-off one; ‘I must do this in order to get that, I must give up this to have that.’ This one often leads to people having some parts of the perfect life but not all 3. Relationships & health good, money bad, plenty of money but poor relationships or poor health, good relationship, plenty of money but suffer from long term illness. You get the idea. We think we can’t have it all.

But why not?

A child can feel quite hurt by a remark or action by an adult because they do not realise the adult ‘didn’t really mean it’ or was speaking from their own frustrations. So an injustice is done. Something simple like not being believed in a dispute between siblings. But the seed is set and the hurt remains, lost and forgotten, but gnawing away at the psyche. That is your block.

If you do not believe you deserve the thing you want then even if it comes it will not stay.

 

Our work:- think about  early childhood. Think about the type of thing or remark that makes us wince because it hits a nerve. Think where in our body we feel it. Chances are it will be in the pit of our stomach or the solar plexus. Second or third chakra issues. Then use a healing modality to work at the block.

It may be Ho’opnopono  - see http://www.zerolimits.info/ or Reiki, or prayer or EFT or something else.

This is work, it won’t happen overnight. But once the problem is known the remedy can begin.

Namaste.