If NOM believes its own Facebook post, then NOM is exceedingly cruel

It always blows my mind when anti-equality organizations post claims like this:

[NOM Facebook]

The claim is debatable, in and of itself. But if NOM really does believe this claim to be true, doesn't it make NOM's day in, day out war on same-sex marriage that much worse? I mean, if their own claim is true, wouldn't this be proof positive of the harms that they are bringing to the lives of otherwise qualified same-sex couples who seek the freedom to marry? Aren't they just giving the Supreme Cour...