Fighting shame with selfishness

Guestpost alert!

I’ve written a few hundred words for sweet Kate Love over at her homeTruth Freedom Love for her February series on falling in love with yourself. And of course, I wrote about how to use self-ishness to overcome shame.

Here’s a little teaser:

Shame sucks.

I’m not talking about embarrassment, like when you spill coffee on your crotch and you have to walk around like that all day and you know everyone thinks you peed yourself but no one’s saying anything.

And it’s not regret, like wh...