The Last Thing on My Mind

Last week I received an email from a woman who wasn't thinking about sex. Or at least she told me that sex was the last thing on her mind. She explained that living with a very busy body and mind (she included fibromyalgia, anxiety, depression, chronic back pain and colitis among the things she has been diagnosed with) meant that she couldn't imagine having sex and that she was now worried about her husband of 16 years whom she loved and with whom she used to have very good sex.

I pointed out...