How Being Kinky Prepared Me To Be Poly

This week’s Polyamory Weekly podcast features a conversation with me and Minx, the Terri Gross of the non-monogamous set.  The topic of the interview, “How Being Kinky Prepared Me To Be Poly,” actually came out of a conversation with my good friend Aggie Sez, who writes the wonderful Solo Poly blog.

For those of you finding the blog because of PolyWeekly and looking for my book on making kinky relationships work or the free downloadable checklists and worksheets from the book, you can find those here.

So do you want to hear what my voice sounds like?  PolyWeekly #347 — How Being Kinky Prepared Me To Be Poly

I was kinky before I was poly, and in the interview, I talked about the three major relationship skills that kink taught me that helped me quite a bit as I transitioned from monogamy into non-monogamy:

Talk about sex before it’s a problem!
Aftercare works even if you’re not kinky!
Equal isn’t the same thing as fair.

Minx and I have a grand old time unpacking each of these.  We had a good time recording it and you’ll have a good time listening.