Once More With Feeling

This week's sex question came from a woman who is happy with the sex she's having but not completely happy with her sex life. The guy she is seeing says he likes the sex they are having, but she's sure he is frustrated. It has something to do with his "manly area" a term she simultaneously uses and makes fun of herself for using. The story is that he has no feeling below the waist.

I start my response to her by pointing out that oftentimes people who are stuck in a sexual quandary think that...