Resoluationary Thoughts for a New Sexual Year

It's a funny thing about our relationship to sexuality.

 

Making it to a place where your life feels stable is a frustratingly elusive goal for lots of us. And a stable life might seem to require stable sexuality, a sense that you know what lies ahead for yourself in sexual terms.

There a lot of reasons for this, but the one that usually seems like reason enough is the story we're all told about sexual development:  When you're young you are in the process of becoming a sexual being. ...