As a gay man, I'd actually like to step in and support our allies. The gay rights movement has come a very long way and it absolutely would not have come this far without the help of the decent, sensible straight people who have gone out of their way to f

That’s lovely and wonderful.

I don’t mean to be harsh on people who do good things in life and support causes they believe in.

But so MUCH of the discussion about allies is cookies and medals and the like, it gets very painful to read.