Fierce Tip of the Week: Recognize if You’re in Victim Mode

Let’s face it, there are moments in relationships when things don’t go your way. Those times can be difficult, and it is understandable to move into what we call victim mode – a place where you do not think you have any control over a given situation. In fact, from where you sit, your life would be better, if that person(s) or elements of the situation were different.

This week’s Fierce tip is to recognize when you move into this victim mindset and take note about how long you stay there.

Being in victim mode is normal, and we all do it. It is important to recognize when the stance becomes destructive and counter to the results you want.

Being in victim mode leaves no room for you to take responsibility, and it damages relationships. The first step to moving yourself out of this way of thinking is to identify one item that you can do to have impact on the situation.

Take this opportunity to put a laser focus on your outlook and how you view your own responsibility in relationships this week.