Guest Post by Marty Babits, Author of The Middle Ground: Three Tips for Heating Up Your Relationship this Valentine's Day

One key to couple satisfaction: surprise

Marty Babits is a friend, colleague, and truly gifted therapist who does individual and couples work. His book The Middle Ground is one of the few out there that speaks not just to people in relationships, but those of us in remarriages or repartnerships with children as well.

I asked Marty to share some of his thoughts about Valentine's Day and here's what he had to say…

Limits in the middle ground are not placed on partners by each other but are...