What’s Your Pleasure?

[image error]It’s not too late. September is “Pleasure Your partner” Month. That means you still have a few days left to make your partner look like Meg Ryan here on the right, in When Harry Met Sally, unless of course, your partner is a guy, and you’ll have to find your own orgasm face online. The big difference though is that Sally was faking orgasm, and you want to offer the real thing.

Pleasuring your partner can be achieved in many ways. I don’t think I need to list them all here, but when we think of pleasuring them, we’re generally talking sexually. Why is pleasuring your partner sexually so important to your relationship? Sex is generally an activity couples share a lot at the beginning of their relationships, but as time goes on and we become comfortable and complacent in our relationships, the novelty, excitement and passion tend to wear off. That leads to a decrease in sex.

Many couples think that it’s normal and fill their time with other things. Although Farmville and Dancing With the Stars can kill some time, being intimate with your partner actually connects you on a hormonal level. It makes you feel desired again, and the interesting thing is that once you start sharing intimacy more often, you desire it more. Oxytocin levels increase. Many couples rediscover that passion and excitement they had when they first started dating. And, that can lead to falling in love all over again.

Can you believe it? Falling in love all over again, because you snuck in a little partner pleasuring at the end of September. Not a bad gig.