Saying no = GUILT

Ugh. I don't like being mean. I'm going to be mean. I spoke with some people who know me and love me and pointed out a few things: 1. I've got a wee bit going on in my life. I know, everybody does. But being realistic about how busy you are is not a bad thing. 2. I am a bit grouchy when my already busy life gets insane. And we do insane a lot around here as it is. Some people thrive on insanity. I have a certain point and then - I lose it. If I don't leave...