A Lady in Waiting: A Bit about Marriage (Part II)

Back in the day, after a heated discussion about relationships, a friend asked if I expected the heavens to open and drop my husband-to-be on my door step. She insisted that I was not trying hard enough to find a mate. She thought that my cool demeanor, choice dates and trusts in the Lord were basically amounting to faith without works. She was convinced that I should be visiting more social clubs and events to gain more opportunities to meet Mr. Right.

She was mistaken.

I was busy living my li...