O Harry: Because Sometimes Your Friends are Ignorant

It's always a tricky bit of navigation when your friends say or do something ignorant. I remember a couple of occasions in church, I was attending a mostly white church at the time, and one of the members patted me on head. On another occasion, the pastor compared me to "a faithful dog" from the pulpit. For better or worse, I chalked those things up to well-meaning, but ignorant gestures. Perhaps she didn't get the memo that the whole rub the head of a black guy has some pretty racist ori...