Transitions

My four-year-old son has trouble with transitions. In school and at home moving from one task or activity to another too abruptly causes anxiety, stress and the occasional tantrum. My wife and I try to combat this by preparing him in advance for a change in routine, or upcoming tasks that need to be handled.

"Don't forget, after you finish breakfast, go to your room and pick out your clothes."

"What are we doing after we get dressed? We're going to ride the bus to school."

"Who is...