On Losing and Finding Yourself Again
It’s strange how easy it is to lose pieces of yourself without noticing.
Not all at once, not dramatically, but in small ways. In the quiet compromises, the things you stop doing, the versions of you that fade because life keeps asking you to be something else.
Maybe it happens after a loss. Maybe it happens slowly, after years of putting duty before desire, or comfort before curiosity. You wake up one day and realize you’ve been surviving, not living.
That’s something I think about a lot when I write—especially when I wrote Fabled, Book 1: Icebound.
The main character, Prince Destan, isn’t a grand hero charging into battle. He’s a boy trying to remember who he was before the world told him who to be. His journey isn’t just about fighting magic; it’s about fighting numbness. About choosing warmth, even when it hurts.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re rebuilding yourself from the fragments of who you used to be, Icebound might speak to you.
Fabled, Book 1: Icebound is available now on Amazon and free to read with Kindle Unlimited. STORE LINK: https://a.co/d/1tAmjJr
You can also get the first ten chapters free when you join my newsletter right here: https://subscribepage.io/onceuponanew...
Not all at once, not dramatically, but in small ways. In the quiet compromises, the things you stop doing, the versions of you that fade because life keeps asking you to be something else.
Maybe it happens after a loss. Maybe it happens slowly, after years of putting duty before desire, or comfort before curiosity. You wake up one day and realize you’ve been surviving, not living.
That’s something I think about a lot when I write—especially when I wrote Fabled, Book 1: Icebound.
The main character, Prince Destan, isn’t a grand hero charging into battle. He’s a boy trying to remember who he was before the world told him who to be. His journey isn’t just about fighting magic; it’s about fighting numbness. About choosing warmth, even when it hurts.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re rebuilding yourself from the fragments of who you used to be, Icebound might speak to you.
Fabled, Book 1: Icebound is available now on Amazon and free to read with Kindle Unlimited. STORE LINK: https://a.co/d/1tAmjJr
You can also get the first ten chapters free when you join my newsletter right here: https://subscribepage.io/onceuponanew...
Published on October 07, 2025 03:23
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Of Magic and Mischief
Welcome to my Goodreads Author Blog, "Of Magic and Mischief"! Here, I share my passion for all things magical, mystical and fantastical. As an avid reader and writer of fantasy, I love exploring the d
Welcome to my Goodreads Author Blog, "Of Magic and Mischief"! Here, I share my passion for all things magical, mystical and fantastical. As an avid reader and writer of fantasy, I love exploring the depths of imagination and bringing to life worlds filled with mythical creatures, epic battles, and unforgettable characters. Through my blog, I aim to inspire and connect with fellow fantasy fans and writers, sharing my experiences, tips, and insights into the craft of writing. From world-building and character development to storytelling and publishing, I cover a range of topics that will help you on your own writing journey. Join me on this adventure into the realm of fantasy, where anything is possible and the only limit is your imagination!
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