The Secret Ways Narcissistic Abusers and Demonic Energy Vampires Operate

Q. How do Narcissistic abusers and demonic Energy Vampires operate?
Detailed Answer by Rev. Swati Prakash, Wiccan and Ascension Coach, http://www.askswati.com

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A key issue in Ascension is to leave the Matrix of control. This control is perpetrated by people from around who use various strategies. This is what empaths and kind people as well as Healers and Vegans (yes we are targeted too by ‘compassion’ seekers) need to learn.

Narcissistic abusers and energy vampires chase you or find you as they are hugely after people (energy supply). They are predators from within. They hunt for people.They choose you for your Aura (your positive energy field which attracts them). Also they are equally jealous or intimidated by it which is why they seek to harm or destroy those who shine.They usually select people who seem brilliant, intelligent or beautiful (especially women). They even call us Narcissists because they have no idea what a Narcissist is. They falsely think that genuinely talented, attractive, popular and smart or good people are Narcissists. They hate the fame and good renown you have or potentially might gain.They are often after empaths, soft spoken people or friendly and giving people, vegans, and good witches. Because they know you are non violent and harmless and do not hurt, exploit or abuse others. (They think they can make their way in, use you and get away).They also choose people more successful than them, more talented or reputed beings including stars, in order to harm and bring down their personality, glory and self confidence.They actively seek out Tarot readers, Wiccan healers and energy healers who are capable and try to get free help from them in order to drain them. This is why many of us are single and at peace in our own space.Women are at a greater risk due to religious and cultural domination of men in most societies which makes those men as well as their enabling women relatives especially prone to being abusive, jealous and controlling. Marriage is usually manipulative and a glorified way of control in many cases.Abusers including demons and energy vampires believe in an external individual entity whom they call God or in multiple deities as if they were real beings and not personifications. They believe especially in a male authority figure as the creator of nature and do not understand how to respect nature as infinite energy that is neither created nor destroyed.Abusers and controlling people usually lack skills in Reiki healing, real positive magic and energy channeling and depend on other humans or non human animals or religious communities, spiritual circles or communes to energise themselves. If they are taught such skills the energy gets sucked out by them into a vacant cold blackhole as they cannot conduct it through and give it to others or to nature or the planet. They also suck energy out of nature or crystals instead of energising earth with their powers.They might also have dependencies on drugs or substances, specific foods or alcohol or on sex and emotional supply and cannot control or regulate their own energy well.They especially get pleasure by controlling others in order to feel powerful or by harming someone financially or in career or personal life by making someone feel less empowered or more answerable to them.Their aim is to ‘humble you’ or ‘bring your ego down’ if they see you being confident or succeeding or attracting audience, receiving fame or goodwill. This is one of their biggest features. They wish to destroy your power to reach out to the world. They also fear you if you are powerful enough and believe you can harm them by ‘black magic’ even if you are a good witch.They will try to take your time away gradually towards listening to their personal dramas or giving them personal attention so that you have less time and energy for your goals.They usually present themselves as positive or good people or pretend to be compatible and mirror you to build trust and a connection. Only strong intuitive and empaths will figure them out quite fast especially when they see the Narcissist taking undue interest in them or ‘love bombing’ them.They will not take no for an answer especially in friendship, business, projects, or sex. It is their way or the highway. Your wishes are not considered equally. They lack empathy.They will start saying they love you or start flattery or oversharing pretty early on even if you are not emotionally ready. They will try to make their way into your life. They do not understand boundaries.No matter how you say no or tell them you didn’t want something or express your autonomy they will override it and try to maintain control overtly or manipulatively (covertly). They test your boundaries regularly.People around might lack intuition and see them as warm, loving, empathetic snd charming. But intelligent intuitive know something is off. Over time you see they are discriminatory, not really a vegan who is against all exploitation (maybe just plant based for food), have misplaced ideas or notions, and sometimes are transphobes or genderists, sexist, racist, homophobic, or quite toxic. They don’t have ethics right.They are desperate for love or emotional or sexual energy. They badly need you. Empaths do not need anyone. We are happy to energise ourselves. We focus on our work.They criticise or argue unnecessarily but if you say anything even indirectly regarding how you feel, they might rebuke you or prevent your self expression. They can also spread negative gossip or false rumours about you to isolate you with ‘flying monkeys’ and enablers in tow. They get very chatty with them.Not all Narcissists are grandiose or project a sense of domination. Many are vulnerable or pitiable and claim to be trauma affected or broken and abused victims who constantly need others to ‘complete’ them and blame everyone else. Therapy never works on them.Not all are overt or obviously controlling or abusive. Some are sly or covert and often come across and timid, introverted, quiet, soft spoken or ‘subtly attractive’… and try to gain sympathy or empathy (suck energy) from others in a quiet way.Covert manipulations include backhanded compliments, cheating, lying, confusing others, triangulation, trying to subtly put you down, rejecting you when you deserve the praise or opportunity, preferring others over you after initially chasing you, playing hot then cold and giving you strange looks or criticism unnecessarily.Alternating cycles of love or praise followed by abuse or manipulation build a trauma bond because the victim seeks the good times to return periodically and hopes that they can turn it around by positive thinking and patience all of which fails on the narcissist. It’s a total waste of your energy.They will guilt trip you as a covert tactic to make you give more attention to them if you withdraw affections or choose to be strong or sound in your decisions or decide to keep them at bay.They will gaslight you to make you feel the issue is with your behaviour. You will end up questioning yourself and try to be even nicer to them.You will be trained to be their victim and continue being treated that way over time.If they don’t discard you (or reverse discard you by making you leave out of frustration) they will continue the relationship if they choose you as a permanent supply. If this is so they will probably make it nearly impossible for you to exit the relationship and will keep hoovering you back in again.They control your wherabouts, your choices and opinions, your wishes, dreams, career, finances, and might need to know what you are into, what you are upto, even in your free time away from them. They watch or keep an eye on you. Spouses, relatives, friends..obsessed with you, often in the guise of protecting you. Narcissistic parents control their adult children and seek the support of even their young kids, expecting kids to please them or be an extension of them. They do not honour boundaries and let you be free. They are intrusive. They can say they love you and till hurt you or use you at the same time. They do not understand non abusive and mutually respectful and mutually giving behaviour or fairness. Remember Veganism is about fairness and jusice not about compassion necessarily. Wicca too is about the same to not harm others or accept harm to self. The Wiccan Rede states ‘fairly take and fairly give’.They expect your forgiveness and unconditional love and to make you accept their poor behaviour standards and inconsistencies or even their lower intelligence. Remember the part of the Wiccan Rede: ‘With a fool no seasons spend or be counted as their friend’.Their focus is to make themselves the centre of your life in any way possible or make you feel deeply affected or hurt by them or miss them and make them occupy your mind in any way they can.The core of the abuser is hollow or empty. They lack a sense of self or connection with the higher self and derive satisfaction from either being overtly rude, manipulative or covertly controlling or condescending.They also lack true expertise or knowledge but think they know it all or are great or good looking or ’empaths and healers’ when they are not trained or professionally sound (except in negative energy work). They create a false narrative or delusional fantasy or a false self image in their head about how good they are and project it in order to envelop their hollow within.Some additionally develop psychopathic and sadistic tendencies over time on top of their hollow core and narcissistic delusion to further their pride so they do not change or feel genuine remorse.They can suddenly exhibit rage or anxiety and controlling behavior yet blame it on something else in order to manipulate you into allowing it.They do not understand your reactions to their behaviour while making themselves feel entitled to what they do and get from you or get away with.Their aura gives them away. A falseness in voice or way of speaking or expression. Angry or sarcastic tones. Self important body language. Nervousness or anxious vibes. Fake smiles. Vacant eyes. Stupor or emaciated appearence. Sad look. Always looking for connection or sympathy. Controlling of friends, family and colleagues. Yet getting away with it by making yo be nice to them and accept them against your intuition.If you allow it the abuse or manipulation will increase in time, or get worse but you will be trained to get used to it making you even more vulnerable to more such abuse including from other predators. Remember they are predators and their species as a soul is dangerous and they will be so… no matter how much you try to protect yourselves.The only way out is to not just cut off but unplug or remove all energy cords not just communication channels and the prime solution is energetic. The worst ones or demonic beings require banishing or vanquishing spells to keep at bay. Also if you are shielded their negative energy rebounds on them at times while at other times they still break into you. Awareness is the key starting point for all genuinely good witches and empaths or healers in Ascension. Still, be quite mindful that the majority of us being good people are still targets and at risk just as a sheep is in a slaughterhouse. You are never to blame for not being able to protect yourself. Others also need to help you out genuinely and often urgently.

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Blessed be!
Rev. Swati Prakash

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