Try This Screen Addiction Test for Kids (And What to Do Next)

Last Sunday, I was at a café trying to catch up on journaling. At the same time, my son, Arihaan, explored a small outdoor play area nearby. A little boy, maybe 5 or 6, sat beside his mom at the following table. His eyes were locked on a tablet. His mom softly said, “Time’s up, sweetheart. Let’s put it away.”

The response?

A piercing scream.

He kicked, pushed the table, and cried like something had been taken away from his soul.

The mom looked tired—not just physically, but emotionally. “This is the only way I can get him to sit still,” she whispered to her friend.

I didn’t judge her. I felt for her. I’ve met many parents in the same boat—desperate for peace, guilty, confused, and overwhelmed.

Let’s Get One Thing Clear

Screens aren’t the villain.

They’re magical, entertaining, and even educational when used mindfully. But when a child relies on them to regulate emotions, fill every quiet moment, or escape from discomfort, we need to pause… and look a little closer.

But How Do You Know If It’s a Real Problem?

You don’t need a formal diagnosis to check-in.

Here’s a gentle, no-pressure screen check-in I often share with families (and reflect on me too!):

Mini Screen Addiction Test:

Answer honestly—yes or no.

Does your child ask for the screen first thing in the morning?Do they throw tantrums or act out when screen time ends?Is screen time the only thing that calms them during a meltdown?Have you noticed them lying about how long they’ve been watching or sneaking screen time?Do they prefer screens over reading or even eating?Do you feel nervous saying “no” because you’re anticipating a meltdown?Is your child bored or irritable without the screen?

If you answered yes to 3 or more, your child may be leaning into a pattern of screen dependence.

What You Can Do (That Actually Helps)

Don’t worry—this doesn’t mean pulling the plug and starting a screen war. What children need is support with regulation, structured choices, and connection.

Here are a few ideas we use at home and in sessions:

Create a “Choice Before Screen” Rule

Before screens come on, invite them to do two fun or helpful tasks:

Jump on a mini trampolineWater the plantsDo a “mystery letter hunt” around the house

This keeps their brain engaged and gently builds tolerance to delay gratification.

Use Visual Timers or Countdown Cards

Children do better when they see what’s coming. Set a 10-minute sand timer or draw a simple “screen countdown” card with 5 boxes they can colour as time passes.

Swap Out the Screen with a Story-Based Activity

In our home, we often turn Arihaan into the “hero” of a made-up adventure. 

Instead of watching a cartoon, we act out stories:

“Captain Kuku and the Lost Crayon”

“Dino Trouble in the Kitchen”

These stories tap into imagination and problem-solving—and often end in giggles.

Name the Feeling. Then, Offer a Choice.

Instead of “No more iPad!” try:

“I see it’s hard to stop. Looks like you’re feeling upset. You can hug your teddy or help me mix the pancake batter. Which one?”

You’re helping them move from reaction to regulation, which works like magic over time.

One Last Thing…

You’re not alone if screen time is causing stress, disconnection, or daily battles. There’s no shame in seeking support—and plenty of ways to reset with love and intention.

I’m here to help build a screen management plan tailored to your child’s needs.

Book a 1:1 consultation with me at topmate.io/namita_das11

Let’s raise emotionally strong, curious kids—without screens raising them for us.

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Adding these tools to your child’s routine makes shifting away from screens more straightforward and enjoyable. The key is to ensure that screen time is part of various stimulating and meaningful activities.

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