Experiences that differ from their own

What’s something most people don’t understand?

I’m speaking here as someone who is trans-nonbinary. But that’s is not the only way this can apply.

Humans are social creatures, and those social structures create expectations. Expectations that the experiences of those around you will be similar enough to your own that you can understand them. But that’s not always the case.

I grew up knowing I was different, but not having the words to explain how or why. There was no one around me I could point to and go, they’re experience must be similar to mine. It was an isolating experience, which I felt unable to share with anyone.

But it gave me a greater sense of empathy and understanding. Humans aren’t as simple as our social structures suggest they should be. We’re complex in lots of ways and for lots of reasons.

Different experiences are so valuable. Different perspectives. Different backgrounds and beliefs. Different ways of thinking or learning. Different ways of being human. Those experiences are so valuable, because learning about them, embracing them as part of our wider world, helps us grow. It helps society grow.

It saddens me to see how much hate there is in our world. Real growth and change is found within our differences. And hate is the enemy of us all.