Robbie’s Inspiration – W3 Number 149 and Sunday Stills #photography #poetry
Dad’s been diagnosed with pulmonary hypertension
Aftermath of the pulmonary embolism that nearly killed him in 2020
His huge goitre cannot be removed, he won’t survive the surgery
It’s grown into his chest and around his heart, such bad luck
This, together with his large bulk, have caused obstructive sleep apnea
A test is required to confirm this diagnosis – dad is resistant
I have to find the strength to deal with dad’s attitude and the problem
***
Mom’s in a shocking state, thin as a reed, coughing up multicoloured phlegm
Barely able to speak at all – she lies on the coach, clinging to life
An admittance into hospital is necessary – three antibiotics have already failed
A huge row ensues with Dad, who believes he can care for her at home
I take her anyway – she has bronchopneumonia and a cracked rib
May not have survived the night if I’d been intimidated by Dad’s shouting
I have to find the strength to deal with dad’s attitude and the problem
***
Dad apologises, he had no idea Mom was that sick – he looks guilty and sheepish
Meantime, the results of his test have come in – he stops breathing, on average, 29 times an hour
His oxygen levels drop to 76 percent while sleeping, the cortisol reaction will kill him if untreated
He flatly refuses to have the mask – he’s doing fine on the asthma medication
He’s choosing death, the doctor was very clear his body will not withstand the stress
I remind him that he will die and leave him to stew in his own juices
Mom’s discharged, she still requires a lot of attention and care
“I’ll have the mask,” he decides
I have to find the strength to deal with dad’s attitude and the problem
This was how last week went. And my transaction priced and closed on Wednesday which necessitated working through last weekend and late into Monday and Wednesday nights. Tuesday night was spent admitting Mom into hospital. It is all done now. Everyone has made the right decision and is recovering but, my, what an effort. The geriatric toddlers are much harder to deal with than lawyers.
Sunday Stills – flowersOn a happier note, here are some flowers for Terry’s Sunday Stills prompt. You can join in here: https://secondwindleisure.com/2025/03/09/sunday-stills-looking-forward-to-my-favorite-spring-flowers/





