The Only Rule of Minimalism? Make It Your Own

Hi, I’m Rita Wilkins, the Downsizing Designer, and welcome to this week’s blog—where we wrap up our February series on debunking the myth of hard rules in minimalism and decluttering. If you’ve been following along, you know that minimalism isn’t about rigid restrictions or fitting into someone else’s idea of simplicity. 

So today, I’m here to tell you that there’s only one rule in minimalism: make it your own. 

Minimalism isn’t about living with a certain number of items, following a strict aesthetic, or decluttering everything you own. It’s about creating a life that reflects your values, priorities, and unique needs. Whether you want to own fewer things, simplify your schedule, or just be more intentional with what you bring into your life, the choice is yours. 

Let’s dive into how you can make minimalism your own—without guilt, pressure, or unnecessary rules. 

Why There’s No One-Size-Fits-All Approach to Minimalism 

Minimalism is often marketed as a single, uniform lifestyle—white walls, a capsule wardrobe, an empty coffee table. While that works for some, it’s not the only way to simplify. 

Your version of minimalism should reflect who you are. That might mean: 
✔ Keeping a large book collection because reading brings you joy. 
✔ Having a colorful, eclectic home instead of a stark, minimalist one. 
✔ Owning craft supplies, workout gear, or sentimental items that make you happy. 
✔ Keeping a full closet, but making sure everything fits and is worn regularly. 

Minimalism is not about following someone else’s rules. It’s about curating a life that supports your happiness and well-being. 

How to Create a Minimalist Lifestyle That Works for You 

1. Define Your “Why” for Simplifying 

Minimalism isn’t about having less for the sake of it—it’s about making room for what matters. 

Ask yourself: 

Why do I want to simplify? What do I hope to gain? More time? Less stress? More flexibility? What areas of my life feel cluttered—physically, mentally, or emotionally? 

When you define your personal reason for minimalism, it’s easier to let go of what doesn’t serve you—without feeling pressured to meet someone else’s standard. 

2. Decide What Minimalism Looks Like for You 

Minimalism comes in many forms. Which one speaks to you? 

Essentialism: Only keeping what you truly need. Cozy Minimalism: Simplified spaces that still feel warm and inviting. Functional Minimalism: Owning only what serves a purpose. Aesthetic Minimalism: Clean, uncluttered spaces that reflect your design style. Practical Minimalism: A balance between simplicity and comfort. 

There’s no right or wrong way to do it—choose the approach that fits your life best. 

3. Set Flexible Guidelines Instead of Hard Rules 

Instead of strict rules like “own only 30 pieces of clothing,” create flexible guidelines that work for you: 

✅ The “Do I Use It?” Rule: Keep things that serve a purpose in your life. 
✅ The “Does It Bring Me Joy?” Rule: If it makes you happy, it stays! 
✅ The “Would I Buy It Again?” Rule: If you wouldn’t spend money on it now, it may be time to let it go. 
✅ The “Space Rule” If it doesn’t fit comfortably in your space, reconsider its place in your home. 

These personalized guidelines help you stay intentional without the pressure of strict limitations. 

4. Let Go of Minimalist Guilt 

Feeling guilty for not living up to some extreme minimalist standard? Let it go. 

Minimalism isn’t about perfection—it’s about living with more intention and less stress. 

Love holiday decorations? Keep them. Have a sentimental attachment to certain items? That’s okay. Enjoy variety in your wardrobe? There’s nothing wrong with that. 

Your journey is yours. No one else gets to define what minimalism looks like for you. 

5. Reevaluate and Adjust as Needed 

Your version of minimalism will evolve over time. Life changes—so will your needs and priorities. 

Big life transition? Maybe you need more things for a growing family or new home. Entering a new season of life? You might be ready to let go of things that no longer serve you. Feeling overwhelmed? Take a step back and simplify at your own pace. 

Minimalism is a journey, not a destination. It’s okay to adjust and redefine it as you go. 

Final Thought: The Only Rule That Matters 

If there’s one rule to minimalism, it’s this: 

Make it your own. 

Minimalism isn’t a competition. It’s not about deprivation. It’s not about counting your possessions. 

It’s about living with intention and creating a home, schedule, and mindset that reflect what’s important to you. 

So, as you move forward, forget the pressure to “do it right.” Instead, ask yourself: 

✔ What version of minimalism makes me feel happiest? 
✔ What do I want more of in my life? 
✔ How can I simplify in a way that works for me? 

When you let go of the rules and follow your own rhythm, you create a minimalist lifestyle that is joyful, freeing, and truly sustainable. 

Ready to Simplify Your Life—Your Way? 

If you’re looking for a practical, flexible way to embrace minimalism, my Essential Checklists Workbook is a great place to start. 

It includes: 
✅ Room-by-room checklists to help you declutter without stress. 
✅ Reflection prompts to help you align your space with your values. 
✅ Actionable steps for creating a sustainable, intentional minimalist lifestyle. 

Purchase Rita’s Essential Checklists Workbook today and start designing a minimalist life that works for you. 

Got 5 minutes? Check out Rita’s 5 in 5 weekly series, where I share five quick tips in just five minutes on decluttering and simplifying your life. 

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