On veterans’ sense of entitlement: Hey, if your country is good enough to fight for, then it is good enough to come home to

By Stacy Bare

Best Defense bureau of veterans' affairs

There is no easy way to
discuss the issue of veteran entitlement in America. It is a sensitive topic
and that there are those veterans among us who have an issue with what entitlement
is, perhaps a natural reaction. It is also a reaction that our strategic
leadership should have foreseen. When you are part of the 1 percent who serves
repeatedly and you come home to a country where most people are absorbed with  Jersey Shore, the Karadashians, or Michael Vick's dog trial but
can't find Afghanistan on a map nor pick out the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs
of Staff in a lineup, it is easy to feel like society owes you something. That
is, however, not why we choose to serve and is antithetical to the nature of
service and duty.

In the immediate aftermath of
9/11, America was encouraged by our president to go back to the lives we were
used to living. We were not asked to gird ourselves for sacrifice, for war, for
men and women who would come home disconnected and misunderstood by their
communities; at worst, broken and bruised emotionally, spiritually, and
physically. Since then, the men and women who served our nation have come home
to a country that had little understanding of the war or what the war had done
to our minds and bodies. Since Korea, our veterans have deserved better, but
America was not ready then, nor were they now, for the wars of the last 11
years.

America panicked, and rightly
so; we did not want a repeat of what happened during and after Vietnam. America
did something and a lot of it. Something, however, does not always equate to
the right thing. In our attempt to heal, to be generous, and to be thankful to
those who volunteered to serve, America inadvertently created a cadre of
veterans for whom nothing would ever be good enough and at times
dis-incentivized reintegration back home. Our country was good enough to go
fight for, why isn't it good enough to come home to?

We've got a lot of work to do
in this country: It isn't just veteran issues that need fixing, and veterans
can and should take an active leadership role. For example, roughly 1,000
service members have lost an arm since we started the war in Afghanistan. An
estimated 30,000 Americans will lose an arm this year alone. Here is our
opportunity to be a hero, to be a real warrior even without our uniform, to
be  leaders in our communities. To
embrace that challenge is a decision we as veterans have to make.

Our generation is easily the
best supported generation of veterans since those of World War II. A lot of the
something America has done is necessary, needed, and deeply appreciated.
However, we have been nervous to say out loud that service alone should not
guarantee free admission and the front of the line every time for every service
member.

So what do we do?

We need to follow the
examples of those veterans who have politely said "No ,thank tou" to the
handouts and asked instead for a hand up, an opportunity to excel, a level
playing field -- not free admission. We as veterans need to create a return on
investment for the sacrifices and resources we're being given by a grateful nation and we need to stand beside America in the long hard work of creating a
better future for younger generations, not just wait for free tickets to the
next baseball game.