MindHub and Date Runner Correlation

Find a Dating Approach style based on Personality

Today we will show how people can find their approach style using the MindHub system drives. MindHub is a personality profiling system which show from motivators how social or proactive a given personality is.

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Where someone falls on the spectrum between reactive and proactive behaviors correlates to the part of the Date Runner system called the Approach Style, how introverted or extraverted a person is also has some effect on Approach Style. Approach Style during dating is about comfort with certain kinds of communication and the time frame it takes for people to initiate or respond to psychological and physical intimacy. The Approach Style is divided into four categories represented numerically: minus two, minus one, plus one and plus two. Minuses need the longest time frame to feel comfortable with intimacy and prefer verbal approaches before becoming physical. In contrast, pluses aim for quicker understanding and are willing to close physical distances quickly. They require little time to assert what they want with a potential match.

If we look at the MindHub circle we can map the correlation with the four approach styles. For convenience, we will use color to represent each type: Plus twos will be Red, Plus ones will be Orange, Minus one will be Green, and Minus twos will be Blue. We will overlay these colors on the MindHub cycle. Every MindHub profile is comprised of three drives which form a shape, most often a triangle. When color is overlayed you can look at the colors within the shape to determine the approach style. We can see that the plus twos are positioned on the social and proactive parts of the MindHub circle, while minus twos are positioned on the reactive and introverted side. Toward the middle of the circle, we have minus ones and plus ones.

In order to determine anyone’s approach style, there are a series of steps that should be done in order, to filter out mistypes. The first step is to simply determine if there is a color predominantly filling the shape. If so, congrats, you found it. If it looks like colors are split about half and half, then the second step would be to ask if there are two primary drives in one color, if so the approach style is the color of those drives. In the case that you don’t have two drives in one color and still have a split, then you must look at the levels of the drives, if there is an extreme drive the approach style will be the color of that drive. If no extreme drives and the profile is extraverted, then lean to plus one.

Let’s see how this works in practice. In this example, we have a person with primary Greed, Ego, and Lust. We can see that the dominant color is Red meaning this Mindhub profile is a plus two in the Date Runner system. In this example, we have a person with Ambition, Security and Principles. There are three colors within the shape, but the dominant color is Green, meaning that this profile is a minus one. This profile has Ego, Boredom, and Principles, the dominant color is Orange, so we see a clear plus one. Let’s see some more difficult to determine examples. In the case that we have a profile with Regret, Attachment, and Security, we will see that the triangle has an even split of Blue and Green. We have two drives positioned in the Blue area, so we know this is a minus two. Lastly, we have Principles, Resentment, and Revenge, a profile split with Green and Orange, it doesn’t have two drives in one color and has no extreme drives, but the profile is extraverted, meaning it is a plus one.

Once you get comfortable analyzing approach style, you can use this method to understand more quickly what to expect from potential dating partners. You can also assume probable personality drives based on the approach style you’re observing.

To purchase a copy of the book Date Runner, search for ‘Date Runner Calculate’ in your preferred search engine or check the Amazon link.

To purchase a copy of the MindHub book, search for ‘MindHub Personality Profiler’ in your preferred search engine or check the Amazon link.

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Published on February 24, 2025 00:48
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