Angst In The Digital Age

Question 1: If you accidentally glance over at your friend's private chat and see the sentence "I'm sure [your pronoun] will whine loudly about it," do you immediately worry that they're discussing you?

Question 2: If you're trans, do you then think, "Well, even if they are, at least they used the right pronoun. ;-P "

(Yes, I do think with winky smilies now. It's sad how the mind deteriorates.)