How My Son is Teaching Me to Be a Better Teacher

When people hear that I’m a mental health professional and a child counsellor, they often assume I have all the answers. The truth? My biggest lessons about patience, creativity, and connection don’t come from textbooks or workshops—they come from my son. 

My son has ADHD, which means he sees and interacts with the world in unique ways. His boundless energy, curiosity, and creativity constantly push me to think differently about how we learn and grow together. 

The other day, he devised a game using his magnetic alphabet set. He lined up the big and small letters, creating a “running race” between them. Each letter had a personality: “A” was severe and solid, while “z” was small but scrappy. He cheered, laughed, and even had a victory speech ready when “z” won the race. 

At first, I thought it was just a cute moment of play. But as I sat there watching him immerse himself in this self-made world, I realized he was teaching me something profound. 

Seeing the World Differently 

What struck me most was how he turned simple letters into something alive and exciting. This ability to infuse the mundane with meaning is something I see in so many children—they’re constantly inviting us into their world of imagination and curiosity. 

Adults often approach teaching or parenting with a rigid structure in mind. But my son reminded me that sometimes the best lessons are unplanned and playful. Teaching isn’t just about imparting knowledge; it’s about being open to learning alongside your child. 

The Power of Small Wins 

When “z” won the race, my son celebrated like it was the most significant achievement ever. It didn’t matter that it was just a game; for him, it was a moment of joy and pride. 

As someone who works with children and their families, I’ve seen how small victories can build confidence and foster growth. My son’s enthusiasm for celebrating the “little wins” has inspired me to do the same—not just for him but for the children and parents I work with. 

Learning Through Connection 

What stood out most in that playful race wasn’t the letters or game—it was the connection. In those moments, my son wasn’t just playing; he invited me to be part of his world. 

That’s the beauty of learning through connection. Whether it’s a child with ADHD who needs a creative outlet or a neurotypical child exploring their curiosity, the magic happens when we slow down, tune in, and let them lead. 

Becoming a Better Teacher, One Lesson at a Time 

My son has taught me to embrace learning in its messiest, most colourful form. He’s shown me that teaching isn’t about being perfect; it’s about being present. It’s about celebrating small victories, embracing creativity, and finding joy in the unexpected. 

So, to all the parents, teachers, and caregivers out there: the next time your child invites you into their imaginative world—whether it’s a race between alphabet letters or a story about superheroes—say yes. Let them teach you. Sometimes, the best teachers stand three feet tall with sticky fingers and a million questions. 

Let’s Connect

What has a child taught you recently? I’d love to hear your stories in the comments. And if you’re looking for support in navigating your child’s unique needs or finding creative ways to connect and teach, I’m here to help. Schedule a personalized 1:1 session with me today. Let’s learn and grow together.

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