Do not weep
Santable
Do not weep on my grave,
You are my strength.
Think of life without me,
As you started your life on your own.
Depart from me,
As you have to carry your time to your own.
Do not weep,
Remember we were together,
We dreamed together,
We shared affairs to multiply.
Now grief is yours,
Your grievances are with me.
You swim alone alongside,
You strive,
As you grew alone,
You prepared yourself for me.
Do not weep,
Now our meeting is in memory.
Do not weep,
Leave to live,
Dream to be more alive,
Thank God for my sake,
Gather time for realisation.
Do not weep,
I may be restless as a defaulter.
Do not weep,
I may not excuse myself for my departure.
Do not weep,
I may not rest in peace.
Do not weep,
Keep yourself before me,
Keep yourself for you,
Keep yourself with time.
Do not weep,
Time was always yours,
Time is always yours,
I will remain yours,
In dreams,
In memory.
Do not weep,
Be my guide,
Be my well-defined friend.
Do not visit my resting yard,
No flower, please,
No weeping, please,
You may be in grief forever,
Do not miss but think to be.
I am always yours.
Define the divine love.
It is the eternal truth.
Truth is journey to unknown.
Mercy is a hindrance.
Do not weep for me.
I am a lesson.
Time changes.
Time is the best healer.
I had my time.
You are a beautiful symbol of bravery.
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This poem explores themes of loss, resilience, and the enduring bond between loved ones through a heartfelt dialogue between the speaker and a mourner. The speaker urges the mourner not to weep at their grave, emphasizing their role as a source of strength and encouraging them to reflect on the joyful moments they shared. The repeated refrain of “Do not weep” highlights the desire for the mourner to embrace life fully and continue growing, fostering a deep sense of gratitude for the relationship that shaped their past.
The poem’s structure, characterized by short lines, creates a conversational tone that renders the message intimate and direct. This format allows the speaker to guide the mourner toward focusing on their own journey and the lessons learned from their shared experiences. Time emerges as a crucial symbol, representing healing and an ongoing connection that transcends physical separation. The poem’s simple yet powerful language reinforces themes of memory and appreciation, culminating in the assertion, “I am always yours.” This line encapsulates the enduring nature of their bond, suggesting that love persists even in death.
Throughout the poem, love is depicted as a lasting connection that survives beyond mortality. The speaker encourages the mourner to cherish memories rather than succumb to sorrow, reinforcing the idea that the relationship continues to hold significance. This perspective invites a sense of gratitude for shared experiences instead of a fixation on loss.
Ultimately, the poem captures the complexity of grief while emphasizing hope and the importance of treasuring memories. The speaker’s insistence on living fully reflects a profound understanding of love that endures beyond death. With its direct and simple language, the structure creates an intimate tone that feels personal and sincere. The repetition of “Do not weep” serves both to comfort the mourner and to encourage them to embrace life, conveying a powerful message about the resilience of love in the face of loss.

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