Fearless by Design: Building a Life of Courage and Strategy

Courageous living in the modern world

I was thinking about the one thing that separates people in a significant way. I concluded it is – a difference of opinion. Think about anything that unsettles people. It’s a different opinion or point of view individuals are unwavering on. This includes relationships, work, politics, social media, money, health, or anything you can come up with. It wasn’t always as it is now. Social media has become a big distraction, and for many, an unhealthy obsession. Over the years I have loved social media for business, keeping up with family and friends, as well as new friends I’ve met around the world. Too often lately, I witness negativity and fear. Two things that do not feed our soul or bring us joy.

I find this sad and unsettling…

A difference of opinion and spirited debates are the age I grew up in. People would banter back and forth, enjoying the differing thoughts and ideas presented. Much like a chess game is played. Critical thinking, imagine that! CT people keep an open mind. Listening and learning from ‘the other side’ of the fence, so to speak, uniting people rather than dividing them. If you understand both sides (even if you do not or will never agree) you become well-informed and wiser for it.

Strategy is the world we live in now

I see strategy everywhere, in everything. It’s a game of chess, not even well played. Keeping people at each other’s throats tears unity apart. As a human race, we need to pull together, not apart. Think about trying to get a child to eat something they think they don’t like. The resistance is steadfast, yet it becomes their favorite food later in life. They may even say, “I never knew until now.”

I feel like I am living in a land of  ‘trigger, trigger, trigger,’ and I know for certain that to discourage critical thinking is not in anyone’s best interest. I for one, will not participate, nor will I fight it. Why? Some people are going to do what they are going to do. It is a waste of time and energy that I can spend on something productive that feeds my body, mind, and spirit. I choose to live my life by design, fearless and courageous.

Many have come to the conclusion to keep their outside voice quiet while their inner voice is yelling, “WTF!”  Others shout from the rooftops to anyone who will listen. I wonder, how do you feel? It’s an information war out there with lines drawn in the sand. As I have always said, “Do your homework” to ensure you know both sides of a situation before making a decision you may regret in the future. Have a blueprint of your own to guide you. It’s useless to fight against someone whose mind you cannot change. But, just like the child who will not eat his ‘peas’ – they may one day change their mind.

People are tired, confused, and in fear right now

Living in courage isn’t always easy, but it is a requirement if you wish to build a fearless life by design, (through these tumultuous times) in peace and calm. The reason I built this Living in Courage website was to assist others dealing with loss, grief and overwhelming challenges. My husband and I came out the other side of the loss (forever loving those we lost) we experienced in a short few years. We pulled together, filled with love, strength, courage, and peace. Soon after, I wrote my book, “Change Your Movie, Change Your Life: 7 Reel Concepts for Courageous Change.”

Keep in mind, courage is not about doing everything on your own. Seeking support and inspiration from those you trust can help you maintain higher levels of courage and resilience. Others my need your wisdom, no matter the situation or outcome they are experiencing. Be the calm in the storm, my friends. Strategic, fearless, adaptable, and courageous in the face of anything life throws at you. We are all in for a bumpy ride. If you happen to experience motion sickness, remember that it is only temporary and will pass!