How Becoming a Parent Transformed My Career: A Journey from Workaholic to Compassionate Leader

Becoming a parent is one of the most transformative experiences a person can undergo. What impact has becoming a parent had on your career?

Sales VP and author Jeff Kirchick joined me today to discuss. Jeff became a parent 9 months ago while I did 17 years ago, and we share our perspectives.

When I became a Dad at 28, I was a selfish, ego-driven workaholic, pouring all my energy into my career. I worked constantly and even spent time with colleagues outside of work.

The best thing that ever happened to me was becoming a Dad.

From the moment I held my first child, my universe expanded to include a new center—someone who wasn’t me. It was no longer just about chasing the next promotion or hitting the next sales target. It was about being there for those irreplaceable moments: the first day of school, volleyball games, gymnastics, or even a simple bedtime story. And while my drive to succeed never diminished, it evolved. It wasn’t just about personal achievement anymore—it was about creating a legacy that my children could be proud of.

Every decision is now viewed through the lens of how it will impact not just me, but my entire family.

The stakes are higher, but the rewards are infinitely more meaningful.

Parenthood has not only reshaped my priorities but has also made me a better leader. I’ve developed a deeper empathy for my colleagues, especially those balancing the demands of a family. I’ve come to appreciate the importance of flexibility and understanding—qualities I might not have valued as a young, single sales director. Being a parent has made me more patient, more compassionate, and more committed to fostering a work environment where everyone feels supported.

My family has not only been my greatest source of joy but also my greatest teacher. They’ve taught me what it truly means to lead, to serve, and to love.

How has parenthood—or any significant life event—reshaped your professional journey? Share your thoughts below! Let’s start a conversation about the beautiful ways our personal lives intersect with our careers.

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