What Should Trapped Charedim Do?

In the last few days I received a variation of the same question from three different people in the charedi world. There are many people who, for one reason or another, are stuck in the charedi world. Either they grew up that way, or they moved to Israel and fell into that culture, and now their children are embedded in the system. Meanwhile, the events of the last ten months have made them realize that the charedi path of not sharing responsibility in a national emergency is wrong. What should ...