Patterns of Control
Ok. It’s gonna be a tough topic today, so I want to give a few warnings…
We’re going to be talking about cults and how they manipulate people. I bring this up because these are tough things to look at, but they’re important because they are established patterns of control.
These controls end up in domestic violence, religious abuse and totalitarian governments.
When looking at the pattern of control and evaluating our involvement we have to be willing to look at not only the side we disagree with, but also the side we agree with.
It’s not about politics, religion or society - it’s about recognizing a behavior pattern that leads to toxic situations in all aspects of society.
If you’re moving into overwhelm you can stop here.
If you want to learn more about the patterns of control you can read below this line.
Here are some Patterns of Control:
Manipulation and control are always present.
The cult leader will use your emotions and need for attachment and belonging to the group to keep you within their control.
The physical aspects of control are things like monitoring your every move, every moment of the day, including when you sleep and what/how much you eat.
Boundaries are always considered rebellious and toxic… even if you are needing to take a few moments to lock yourself in a bathroom so you don’t scream at someone.
Shame is a big method for motivation and keeping within their rules.
Snitch culture and paranoia are critical.
Snitch culture is finding secret information on someone else and then using that secret information as an escape to relieve the pressure off you by giving those in charge information on someone else.
It can be inappropriate or illegal or can just be a weakness such as “that person doesn’t eat broccoli.” A manipulative leader will find a way to use people’s fears and weaknesses to break them regardless of what kind of information is available.
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