On Wanting to Change: Adam Phillips on Our Capacity for Transformation

“There is no description of a life without an account of the changes that are possible within it.”

When answering the Orion questionnaire, a question stopped me up short by contracting an incomprehensible expanse of complexity into a binary:

Are you the same person you were as a child?

It is fundamentally a question about change — its possibility and its paradoxes, our yearning for it and our ambivalence toward it. Here I am, living on a different landmass from the one I was born on, in a bod...