The One Thing in My Marriage I Wish I Could Do Differently

Yesterday (May 27th, 2024) was Emily’s and my 18th wedding anniversary. If it were a human, our marriage would now be legally eligible to vote.1

I think about marriage a lot—what it takes to have a healthy one, specifically. This is something I care a lot about because, Emily and I work very hard to have a healthy marriage. And there isn’t really a great secret to it, a sure-fire multi-step strategy, or anything like that. We just talk to each other, intentionally spend time together, and tr...