What to Expect

One of my friends from college passed away earlier this week. She had been so concerned about my illness. We really don’t know who’s leaving here or when. I recognize that disease brings with it a host of issues.

When we are sick, the first thing we do is label it. So we need a more specific name to treat it. But then, the question is if it’s treatable. Can I be cured, and if not, is it terminal? If it’s terminal, how long can I expect to live?

This is where we MUST be careful. The word is expected. Please don’t let someone else shape your expectations and experience. Yes, there are norms and averages, but you’re far from a number. And, if you’re like me, you’re anything but ordinary. Smile. Really, you are unique, and if anything, expect to be different.

I heard the doctor say, in essence, go and get your house in order; you have 2-3 years to live. My wife and I checked our insurance and savings and compared notes to see what this all means. However, what I told our daughter crystallized it. I EXPECT to be here when you graduate from high school and college, get your first job and career, get married, and have your first child. I added, “In that order.” Fast forward to Kayla’s career in nursing, which is going well. Now, for the rest of the story, Lord…

Tantalizingly terrific and Thankful Thursday. Today, my testimony is that God brought me to this top-of-the-mountain experience. I’m blessed to have my books published and the audio version in production. He’s blessed me with family and friends like you. Though my diagnosis was 2-3 years, I am going on 15 years of experiencing this life. Praise God that He alone determines how long I will enjoy the blessings of having a meaningful and purposeful life. Simplysaidbysimon gives Jehovah praise because of ALS – A Loving Savior. Thanks to all of you who have given me this acronym. And for knowing Him, who to know is eternal life. Hallelujah. Excuse me, my slip is showing.