Will my limerence ever go away?

This question comes courtesy of a client I’ve been working with.

Susan* (not real name) has been limerent almost her entire life. And now, in her 40s, she worries that she will never find the Love of her Life. She writes,

“Hi Sonia, I’ve been limerent since I was a very young girl. It started with boybands in the 80s and 90s.I was always obsessed with the guitarist.. don’t know why! When I hit puberty and later on in college… I had several very intense crushes, where nothing came out of ...