Writing the Romance 💔 Break-Up #MondayBlogs

As a reader of romance I think writing a good break-up is an art form. The authors who do it well make their fictional couple break-up emotionally impactful and believable. They write them so well you can almost hear your own heart breaking into two.

I have been known to shed a few tears at the break up of a much loved fictional couple. I do love it when they break up mid-book and then I’m left wondering / praying / hugging a cushion they’ll get back together at the end.

Here are some things I think should be considered:

Character Development:
The breakup has to align with the characters’ growth and development throughout the story. The reader needs to see how the relationship has changed them individually and whether a breakup is a natural progression for them.

Motivation and Conflict:
You have to establish the reasons for the breakup. As a reader, I don’t want to be thinking whether I would break up with that person for that reason. I am not a fan of vague break-ups either. If they are going to split up, let’s make it a good reason. Whether it’s external conflicts, personal growth, or irreconcilable differences, you must make the motivations authentic and believable.

Setting and Atmosphere:
This is important. You must choose an appropriate setting for the breakup scene. The location can contribute to the emotional impact. I like to use the atmosphere and surroundings to enhance the mood. A rainy day, a quiet café, or a meaningful location can add depth to the scene.

Emotional Impact
As readers we want to FEEL the tension, heartache, and vulnerability of the moment. This is why we read romance. We want to FEEL things. I am all for reading about the aftermath – the characters’ immediate reactions and how they cope with the breakup emotionally. Love all this.

Setting and Atmosphere:
Think about the breakup on supporting characters. Friends and family can offer insights, support, or create additional conflict.

Here’s the secret sauce – Decide whether the breakup provides closure for the characters or leaves certain aspects open-ended. Is there a chance they could get back together?

Good luck splitting up your fictional romances