No, Katy…Don’t Do It!

Rumors are abound that singer Katy Perry wants to get back together with her ex-hubby, actor Russell Brand. She’s having second thoughts about the divorce after a mere 14-month marriage. Brand has moved on and is living with model, Nikolett Barabas. Perry tried moving on with model, Baptiste, but she still misses Brand.

Here’s the deal, the couple didn’t publicize the reason for the divorce. There was speculation that the sex had died down and that Brand was too interested in other women. No matter the reason, Perry said she was surprised when Brand served her with the divorce papers on December 30 of 2011. The thing is, whatever the problem was, it hasn’t gone away, Katy. She is a place where selective memory is taking over. She’s lonely and forgetting the bad, remembering only the good. As a result, she wants to get the relationship bac =k on her feet.

The truth is, odds are it would not be in her best interest. I recall being heart-broken my senior year in high school when a girlfriend of mine called it quits. I wasn’t ready to move on and I still had string feelings for her. After a few months a miracle took place. She wanted to give the relationship a second chance. My heart screamed for me to give it another chance, but my brain told me not to, because it would be sure heart-break again.

I knew I wanted to be with her, but I had enough respect for my heart to avoid going through that pain again. It was one of the hardest things that I had ever done at the time. I told her that I just didn’t feel that way for her any longer. Was it a mistake? i guess it could have been. I’ll never know. But, I did heal. I found the woman of my dreams, and I stayed friends with my ex, all while saving my heart from what I know would have devastated me again.

Katy, relationships are risks, because they may not work, but when they don’t and you become heart-broken, be strong enough not t repeat he same mistakes. Let Russell have his model and keep moving, Katy. Don’t look back. No regrets!