Recognizing When a Friendship Has Gone Sour

Friendship is an invaluable part of life, offering us joy, support, and comfort. However, there are times when the bonds we cherish can turn toxic. How do you discern when someone is no longer a good friend? Here are some telltale signs to watch out for:

Instagram Selfie Over Text Reply: They’re too busy posting selfies on Instagram while ignoring your texts. They prioritize their own image over your feelings and life. Genuine conversations are not on their agenda; they seek validation from strangers. This hints at a self-centred and shallow friend.The Vanishing Books: They borrow your books but never return them. Your generosity is taken for granted, and your property is treated as theirs. Damages go unacknowledged, apologies unspoken. This signifies a lack of respect and gratitude.Parenting Critics, Kid Troubles: They criticize your parenting skills while their kids are in constant turmoil. They’re quick to judge but oblivious to their own shortcomings. Their attempts to make you feel guilty or inadequate while ignoring their family’s issues reveal a hypocritical and insecure friend.Dish Duty Invites: You’re invited to their parties, but your role is limited to dish duty. Your time and worth aren’t valued; you’re an unpaid labourer, expected to handle all the work while they revel. This indicates an exploitative and elitist friend.Advice-Seeking, Wisdom-Ignoring: They seek your advice but never follow it. They feign interest and heed your guidance, only to do the opposite. Blame for their failures lands on you, while they take sole credit for successes. This behaviour is indicative of a manipulative and unaccountable friend.

If any of these traits resonate with your friends, it may be time to bid them farewell and seek out those who will genuinely love, appreciate, and inspire you. Life is too precious to be surrounded by negativity. You deserve friends who uplift and support you.

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