Questions You Should Ask Before Engaging in Sex

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Engagingin sexual activity involves mutual consent, communication, and understanding.It's important to have open and honest discussions with your partner to ensurea consensual and comfortable experience. Here are some questions that you andyour partner should ask each other:

 

What are your boundaries andlimits regarding sexual activities? Are there any specific acts or behaviorsthat you are uncomfortable with or want to avoid?

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Have you been tested for sexuallytransmitted diseases (STDs) and sexually transmitted infections (STIs)? Haveyou had yourself tested for STDs and STIs? What protection methods, such ascondoms or dental dams, will you be using? Years ago, a doctor on a TV talkshow said, “If you are having sex, you are participating in a high-riskbehavior.”

What contraceptive methodsare you using to prevent unintended pregnancies? Are you currently using anyform of birth control?

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Are you at ease discussingdesires, preferences, and any concerns or fears? How will we both ensureongoing communication during the experience?

 

Are you emotionally readyand willing to engage in sexual activity? Is there a level of trust andconnection between us?

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What type of relationship areyou seeking? Are we both in agreement with expectations and intentions?

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Remember, these questions are meant to be open and honest. Communicate in arespectful and non-pressure manner. Permission and ongoing talks are keyaspects to a healthy and enjoyable sexual happening.♥