Ditch rejection and be a magic maker

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I have no fear of rejection in any area of my life. I’d much rather be rejected than regret not taking my shot. I’ve been rejected so often that when I get a positive response, it’s a genuine surprise and delight! If I admire someone’s work, I reach out to them and come to the table with humility as a partner and collaborator who wants to work toward a win-win solution and a shared vision.

Over the past few weeks I’ve been reaching out to people doing work I’m passionate about that’s related to my dissertation at University of Cambridge. I don’t know any of them, nor do we have any mutual connections. I’m just sending off blind emails explaining who I am, what I care about, and what I love about their work. I’ve yet to get a rejection – they’ve all said they’d be happy to talk to me and to see what we can create together.

So often we take ourselves out of the running because of a fear of rejection. Think of all the wasted potential that causes. The worst that will happen is they’ll say no, or not respond. Muster up the courage and put yourselves out there. Out there is where the magic happens, and right now our world needs more magic makers. Be one of them.