Navigating Church with Sobering Faith

Church can be a complex and challenging place, and it's not always easy to find a community that aligns with our beliefs and values. The relationships we build within our churches can have a profound impact on our spiritual journey, and it's important to find a community that supports our growth as individuals and as a collective.

As we navigate the challenges of church life, we must remember that we are all imperfect individuals (including church leaders) struggling to find our way in the world. At times, disagreements arise, and it can be difficult to maintain peace within the church. However, the power of the Holy Spirit can unite even the most divided communities, as evidenced by the New Testament church.

My books, Sobering Faith and Opening Up, have resonated with many individuals who have struggled to find a church community that is a good fit for them. Some have asked me if I attend church based on the content in my books, and my answer is yes. My wife and I are members of a small church, even though it may not fully align with all of our personal convictions and beliefs.

It's important to be involved in the church community, even if we don't always agree with everything that is being said or done. Church can be difficult because of the judgment, hurt, and "weirdness" that people bring into the community. However, we must remember that we're all imperfect, and we're all trying to find our way.

As you navigate your own journey of faith, I encourage you to consider the impact that church can have in your life. If you're struggling to find a community that aligns with your beliefs and values, don't be discouraged. Keep searching for a community that allows you to be the person that God made you to be.

For those of you who have experienced pain, hurt, or abuse within your faith circle or church, my heart goes out to you. It's okay to take a step back and re-evaluate your spiritual journey. Seek out trusted, positive, and joyful individuals who can walk with you through the dark moments of faith and church.

Remember, the church is a collection of like-minded individuals who are coming together to support each other and walk together in their journey of faith. If your church isn't doing that for you, don't be afraid to keep searching until you find a community that does.

In the end, the journey of faith is about finding peace, joy, and freedom from the elements of the world. Let's continue to support each other in this journey and build communities that reflect the love and grace of God.

Guidelines for Finding a Healthy Church:

Seek a church with clear values, beliefs, and practices aligned with the Bible.

Choose a church that values transparency, accountability, and humility in its leadership.

Look for a church that prioritizes creating a safe and inclusive environment for all members.

Consider the church's history and reputation regarding its approach to handling church hurt and abuse.

For more information and guidance on healing from church hurt, visit https://www.dralisoncook.com/church-hurt-4-steps-healing/. Remember, God wants to bring healing and restoration to your life and experiences. Don't settle for a toxic church environment when healthy ones are out there.