New lessons

I thought now that I know the secret and the rituals, there is nothing new that I will come across in the future. But I did though.

It was lessons by Dr. John Demartini. The valuable lessons that I’ve learnt are –

1) What is the most valuable and highest priority you are already, unconsciously giving to in your life? What are your values? Here is the link where Dr. Demartini asks certain questions that determine it. Example is like what are top three things you always need? What are the activities you spend most of the time in? …

I personally feel that this exercise will in some ways help you figure out your purpose and the service that you would love to give.

2) Neutralizing / law of balance / law of polarity and the unity of the two poles

Yin Yang philosophy. I never understood properly until this explanation.

We all know that in nature, there is a positive and it’s opposite the negative. There are positive and negative charges in electricity, together they create the current. There are opposite emotions happy/sad, selfless/selfish, leader/follower. There are opposites in physical attributes, tall/short, fair/dark..

Now, the question here is ? Do you accept the negative side of life and when it comes which you know it will come as it is a part of life, will you work with it or avoid it?

How I understood this concept is, it goes like this, Dr. Demartini was teaching how to attract your soulmate. Here is the link

First, as usual writing the attributes of what you want your soulmate to be like.

Second, to write the opposite of what we want. Also, to write the disadvantages that will tag along the positive attribute. For example, if he is a handsome person, many women will be attracted to him. If he is an intellectual person he may always want to be right.

When I did that exercise, I stepped down from fantasy to realistic, clear, simple idea. This person was so easy to imagine. He was more real, humane. He was not a perfect person and his imperfections were making him more attractive and getting along with him became effortless. And most importantly, my dream became instantaneously a certainty and very attainable dream.

3) Dr. Demartini also explains that whatever we want already exists. I am not talking about attracting to you what you want but that it already exists right where you are but not in a form that we want it in. Like in the previous example, Dr. makes that lady to think in whom she sees one of the many qualities. One by one, she states one quality in one person… But all of them were not eligible because one was already married, the other was way younger, the other was not handsome. It turns out that she wanted these qualities but she had been wounded in the previous relationships. Like the handsome person flirts with ladies and also she always felt conscious and insecure of her fitness and beauty. So, deep in her she was not ready for this ideal person and all she is manifesting are people who have the quality but she cannot live with or marry.

The acceptance that this person is a package of both positive and negative is in itself balances our polar emotions and makes us love our other halves unconditionally.

Similarly, in any situation if you write the positives and negatives, your emotions get balanced. If you feel someone is perfect and above you, write down what you are better at and balance it. Likewise, if someone is lower to you, write down what you are not good at and neutralize the situation.

Thanks so much! Love you