28.3.23 Paralyzed Man Reflection

You probably have heard the story before. The man who was paralyzed for a consecutive 38 years, was approached by Christ at the Sheep Gate, and then healed. Interestingly, many Christians emphasize the question that Christ asked before the healing was initiated. This infamous question is as follows: "Do you want to be made well?"

Indeed, too often people find that question low-key offensive. Some say that if they were the paralyzed man that they would backchat Christ. Or perhaps, they would be easily agitated at this question: "Do you want to be healed?". Like saying "Yeah, duh?", "What do you think?" etc.

But I want to put a spin to that reactive perspective. For me, I think the paralyzed man was proactive. I believe he must have seen Christ clearly as someone 'different'. Someone beautiful, gentle, compassionate. Someone powerful, almighty and just. Truly, this was how the paralyzed man saw Christ. For with such perception can come comfort. And didn't the paralyzed man comfortably share his story, without being asked to? Indeed, Christ never requested him to open up directly. But, Christ's nature: a beautiful synchronization of the humanity and divine, provided unconditional positive regard for the paralyzed man to share.

Likewise, when directed to take up his bed and walk, the paralyzed man was immediately receptive. No hesitation. No doubt. Take in this for a hot minute. After 38 years of being paralyzed-essentially not moving- the paralyzed man got himself up, walked and carried his bed.

Overall, for me, the story of the paralyzed man is a testimony to humanity. A testimony that when we see who Christ is clearly, we can share our struggles authentically; and embrace His unconditional positive regard. With unconditional positive regard that Christ exudes, we too can experience healing- spiritually, emotionally and physically.